译⊙林方伟 70后中国电视主持人涂磊近年主持过一系列情感综艺类节目如《情感大裁判》和《爱情保卫战》。他的一箩筐经典两性、爱情语录也让他在中国互联网成为爱情意见领袖。不管你同不同意他的爱情哲学，在来临的情人节能有多一位感情军师并非坏事。我们总是善于去伤害那些爱我们的人， 因为我们根本伤害不了那些不爱我们的人；我们总是甘愿被那些我们爱的人伤害，那是因为我们爱他们。We are always so good at hurting the people who love us, because we cannot hurt those who don't. And we always let those we love hurt us, simply because we love them.只有爱不爱，没有合不合！没有人天生为你准备，磨合的过程固然痛苦，但过后的水乳交融却更有意义！中途退出的人，无非是不够爱，却偏偏说不适合，有缘无分之说更是扯淡的借口！真爱，就坚持，没有炼狱般的彼此磨合，哪来心有灵犀的一生浪漫！We stay in relationships because of love, not compatibility. There isn't a single person in the world who is born to fit you perfectly. No doubt it would take a great deal of effort from both parties to make a relationship work, but when two people start to gel, it would make the pain all the more worthwhile. People break up because they don't love each other enough, yet they blame it on their lack of compatibility, claiming that they are just not destined for each other are just nonsensical excuse. Persist, if you truly love each other. One cannot expect a lifetime of romance and deep connection without first undergoing painful trials and tribulations.爱人七分足矣，剩下三分爱自己。It is enough to give 70% of your love to someone, save the other30% for yourself.忘记一段恋情的方法是认真地面对它、总结它。The way to forget a broken love is to see it for what it really is, and then end it.参杂了金钱的爱情，就像馊了的米饭一样，表面上看没有什么区别，其实已经难以下咽。Love tainted by money is like boiled rice that has turned rancid. It may look fine on the surface, but you just cannot eat it anymore.恋爱的时候我是马，愿意陪你走天涯；结婚之后你是马，任我骑来任我打。既然大家都是马，相亲相爱走天涯。I am your horse when we are dating. I will gladly go anywhere in the world with you. After we get married, you are at my beck and call. Since we are both horses, why don't we just love each other and roam the world together.